For every parent you struggle and fight to raise happy, healthy, and responsible children.  But what things should your children know at a minimum?  Parents are always questioning this as time goes on and they try to determine what their child should know.  Parents always stress out and compare their children to other kids in regards to grades, sports trophies and other trivial things.

Need to Know #1.  Every child should at a minimum know when it is appropriate to say “Please,” “Thank You” and even “Your Welcome” this is not optional.  These words show respect and good manners, and every parent should ensure their child knows these words as well as when to say them.  Many parents forget about how much the basics can teach a child in regards to manners.  Such small changes can make a huge difference in the way the child behaves and acts towards teachers, parents and other authority figures. 

Need to Know #2.  Children should always know the names of their parents and be able to give their first and last name.  This is so that if an emergency occurs, the parents can be located without major hassle.  Children are abducted every day around the US and those kids who are able to give some information about their parents find themselves home faster than those who do not know. 

Need to Know #3.  Aside from knowing their parents name, all kids should know the address and phone numbers.  Phone numbers are usually easier as it is shorter than an address, but they need to be learned.  My children have always learned my cell phone number first, then we move on to address and finally home phone number.  My theory is that if something happens to them, I am going nowhere without a phone to contact everyone with and attempt to find them.  Hence, the cell phone number is the first I teach, it is nice and mobile and will be going with me. 

Need to Know #4.  Children should know the rules for talking to strangers.  We fight daily the battle with our oldest who is overly friendly.  She speaks to everyone she comes into contact with, even when she has never seen them before.  While we know how dangerous this is, it is very difficult to explain to small children without getting them overly upset.  However, they must be taught early about the potential dangers, before something bad happens. 

Need to Know #5.  Fires are always dangerous, however most children are fascinated by the mere idea of a fire.  While a controlled fire that is supervised by an adult can make a great bonfire for roasting marshmallows, children must be taught that they should tell an adult anytime they see a fire, regardless of where it is. 

As you can see, my list covers the major safety issues that should always be taught to children.  Kids that are very young, as young as 2 years old can easily learn these rules.  Each individual family should make sure these are taught, as well as any additional rules that fit into your individual household rules and circumstances.